TwoBusy: The art & science of successful parenting

April 10, 2008

The art & science of successful parenting

Scene: a Thursday morning at Castle TwoBusy, where TheWife is attempting to fill out a medical form in preparation for the twins' first visit to the dentist next week.

TheWife: "They're asking about allergies. What's Rabbit allergic to?"

TwoBusy: "Penicillin, and pretty much the whole family of related antibiotics."

TheWife: "How do you spell penicillin?"

TwoBusy: "P-E-N-I-S."

TheWife: (scribbling away, waiting for the next letter, then figuring out what she just did.) "You realize that I just wrote that on the form."

TwoBusy: "I'm so glad I married you for your looks."

TheWife: "That's great. I'm sure the dentist's office is going to be thrilled with this."

TwoBusy: "I'll make sure you're the one who hands it over to the staff."

TheWife: "I still don't know how to spell it."

TwoBusy: (grabbing the paperwork, crossing out TheWife's illegible handwriting and jotting down the word w/proper spelling) "It's not like it'd be the worst thing in the world if we found out in another ten or twelve years that she was allergic to penis."

TheWife: (looking pointedly at the jackass she married) "Tell me about it."

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Comments

I hoping to find that Little Dubyette has the same affliction

Posted by: mr. big dubya | April 10, 2008 at 10:03 AM

A friend wanted to send his daughter to an all-girls boarding school and hope that nurture won over nature.
I do not understand fathers.

Posted by: claire | April 10, 2008 at 10:53 AM

Huh, huh. You said "staff."

Posted by: Mark | April 10, 2008 at 12:14 PM

It wouldn't bother me too much to think that my boys would be allergic to their own penises in a few years, too. Alas, I think boys are born immune to such a thing.

Posted by: foradifferentkindofgirl | April 10, 2008 at 05:27 PM

HAAAAAAA. I love your wife.

Posted by: jonniker | April 10, 2008 at 08:39 PM

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